"The Importance of Communication"
(Lessons from Ronald Reagan Part IV)
We all consider communication to be of great importance in all areas of life. Especially marriage.
But, how many of us are really great communicators? Not that many. So, why can people have good marriages, etc. if there aren't very many people good at communicating?
Well, I'll tell you in just a minute.
Reagan was called "The Great Communicator". But why was he called that? Was it because of his speaking skills? Was it because of his grammar?
If you watch some of his speeches, he stutters and stops and re-starts. Although he has a great presence, I wouldn't say that his speaking skills were the greatest that I've seen.
There are two main reasons why Ronald Reagan was called the "Great Communicator".
The first was because he was able to communicate great ideas that inspired people.
People mentally define communication in different ways: pattern of speech, choice of words, grammar, fluency, smoothness - but what's really important is the communication of ideas. Or the substance of what you are trying to say.
That's why people who don't "speak well" can have happy marriages or be "great communicators" because it's more than the words spoken, the order they are used, and grammar.
Secondly, Reagan was considered the "Great Communicator" because he spoke like the everyday man. He talked like they did. He was easy to understand.
There are people who write in and "correct my grammar" - but they have no idea that it is done intentionally.
I know grammar. I got all A's in high school. I have a college 4.0 gpa. I'm no dummy.
But in communicating, it is not important to me in the slightest that "I know that of which I'm speaking." I care more that people will understand and know what I'm talking about.
We can all learn a great lesson from the life of Ronald Reagan. Communicate ideas. And communicate them in a way people can understand.
Now, on to other matters.
Here's an email I read after writing this morning's article:
I think of qualities not so admired of this and many other men. God sees the side of everyone that no one sees. The side that achieved and the side that hurt others to achieve it. I don't need a speech to follow any man, Every man must work out his own life plan according to the circumstances he is in. To every man there is a way that seems right, that was right for him, for another maybe he must yield to a whole other set of circumstances in order to allow something else of a greater unseen good to occur. amberli
L.B.: Amberli, you're gonna be what you focus on. You can find faults in everyone, including Ronald Reagan. Why would you want to learn that? I'd rather study the great things about a person and learn from them.
And, yes, I do believe that God sees all and that he knows everyone's bad side, including mine. But, he's also put mine as far as the east is from the west - he's not focusing on my faults and sins, so why should I?
Now, I do believe that we should be aware of evil and wrong doers and teach our children to avoid such things. But why in the world would I want to nit-pick a great man like Ronald Reagan to show an example of a bad quality when there are plenty of men like President Bill Clinton who exhibit lies, deceit, and infidelity. I would never use Bill Clinton's great speaking skills as an example to my children because his overall example is terrible. That's why one of his Presidential nicknames is "Commander in Briefs".
Every great man has faults and sins.
But if a fault, or a bad side, disqualified someone from being a positive example, then there would be no one on this earth that you could learn anything from.
So, you can focus on the negatives of Reagan and whoever else you want to. I'm going to learn all I can from the great attributes of great people as another means to improve my life and the lives of those around me.
But, if you truly believe that your life
"yields" to circumstances around you; then you are right. There is
absolutely no point to studying anything about anyone because your
circumstances are going to direct your life.
L.B.: Chrissy, thanks for discerning comments and reference for reading. You can't read too many good books on any topic. I have this huge stack next to my bed - and a second stack of about 20 books that I need to get through. Actually, you've given me a good reminder that I need to get back on my reading schedule. Thanks
Well, that's it for today - I promised the kids a trip to McDonald's playland this morning and they're up and about now. HUNGRY as usual, of course.
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